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Nov 2023
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The Most Important Element of Compatibil...

Teal Swan
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In this episode, Teal Swan explains what workability is and how to assess it in yourself and your partner. She also reveals the truth about compromise and why it can be harmful to your relationship. You will learn how to avoid incompatibility and disharmony by finding out what is and what is not workable for you. This episode will help you create the right arrangements with people and put them in the right place in your life according to your boundaries.

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