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Oct 2023
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the crush I shouldn’t have

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This week the girls are reading listener submissions about the crushes they shouldn’t have. They talk about being hung up on an ex, hot teachers, old coworkers, & … step dads?Shop our MERCH! Shop.DearMedia.com/WHATWESAIDShop our Jewelry Collection with EVRY Jewels https://evryjewels.com/collections/what-we-said?shpxid=23b8c14d-cf9b-499d-9a43-5d7eea6d93b8 ... Show More
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