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Oct 2023
55m 57s

Beyond Mere Politeness — The Art of True...

THE ART OF MANLINESS
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It often seems like we live in a very inconsiderate, indifferent, and ill-mannered time and that the cure for what ails our abrasive and disjointed relations is a lot more politeness. But my guest would say that what we really need is a revival of civility. Today on the show, Alexandra Hudson — author of The Soul of Civility: Timeless Principles to Heal Soc ... Show More
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