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Oct 2023
1h 45m

Where are All the Good Men and Why Can’t...

Shane Kohler
About this episode

Wondering where all the good men are?  I have the answer. 

After coaching women for the greater part of the last decade, I can't tell you how many times I've heard the phrase, "There are no good men out there!" 

And yet, just last week I was at the wedding of a great man, who at 35 years old is committing his life to the woman of his dreams and they are building a home and family together.  So the fact remains that good men are out there, they just seem to be hard to find. 

So where are they hiding? In this episode I'm telling all.  Are you ready to hear the answers?

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