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Oct 2023
1h 24m

Using Sexual Energy to Rewire Your Brain...

Layla Martin
About this episode

Shownotes

  • Taylor’s sexual development, experiences and journey into sacred sexuality

  • How being deeply present during sex increases pleasure

  • The difference between ejaculation and an orgasm in men

  • How to use sexual energy to reach a heightened creative state

  • The art of co-creating your sexual experience with your partner

  • How unlocking your sexual power enhances your life force

  • The process of building new neural networks using a pleasure practice

  • The power of anal pleasure and how to release the stigma behind it

  • And more!

Bio

Taylor Johnson has a passion for combining esoteric wisdom with western practicality to help men create their most thriving sex lives possible. He helps men overcome sexual dysfunction and THRIVE in their lives using profound teachings that combine Yogic, Tantric & Taoist sexual practices. These include breathwork, physical exercise, mindfulness and somatic awareness training.

As someone who used to struggle with premature ejaculation, porn addiction, erectile dysfunction and massive performance anxiety, Taylor sought transformation, spending over $50,000 on trainings and education around the world. He studied Tantric sex and sexual energy transmutation in Thailand, practical sexual health in Atlanta, GA, and now semen retention and non-ejaculatory orgasms.

Taylor believes in mind-blowing, full-body pleasure, deep & meaningful intimacy integration of sex and spirit, and an embodied purpose that aligns sexual integrity with clear purpose and mission in the world.

 

TimeStamp

00:00:00 - Intro to episode with Taylor Johnson

00:01:12 - This Tantric Life with Layla Martin

00:02:17 - Integrative Sexual Mastery for Men

00:03:33 - How Taylor got into sacred sexuality and details on his sexual development & experiences

00:06:12 - Emotional connection & being deeply present enhances sexual pleasure

00:11:40 - Stay Connected with Layla Martin- Join Email List: https://laylamartin.com/join-list

00:12:22 - How is ejaculation different from orgasm in a man?

00:17:56 - Our Sexual energy is part of taking life force energy up and in, to be in a state of heightened creative energy.

00:23:06 - Co-creative process in holding more pleasure, intimacy, ecstasy and energy.

00:28:33 - Objectification from the heart

00:30:13 - Men’s Sexual Mastery https://laylamartin.com/msm/

00:32:13 - 5 things to start separating ejaculation from orgasm

00:37:39 - Breathwork to prime your system

00:39:30 Vocal cues to exhibit pleasure can be generative in the sexual experience. The sounding tones calms the vagus nerve.

00:41:15 - Sex Magic: https://shopmood.com/categories/shop-all/desire/sex-magic.html

00:45:48 - Self pleasure practices

00:53:29 - The whole body is a sexual organ, including the brain. When you unlock your sexual power it impacts your entire life force

00:54:32 - A pleasure practice is so important as it can rewire your nervous system and build new neural networks

00:57:13 - Point 4: overcoming inner trauma of premature ejaculation

01:02:25 - Anal pleasure and overcoming the stigma 

01:10:52 - Magnetic: 21 Days to Erotic Confidence  http://laylamartin.com/21-days-to-erotic-confidence/

01:11:50 - Three Rapid round questions: How to introduce prostate pleasure to a partner?  What can you do to set up a pleasure practice? What changed in you after doing these practices?

01:20:37 - Doing these practices and doing the work makes you more attractive and helps you to be a better person

01:23:55 - Conclusion

 

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