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Oct 2023
49m 9s

A Cure for Existential Boredom

THE ART OF MANLINESS
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It’s one thing to be bored by having to wait in line or sit through a dry lecture. It’s another thing to be bored with life itself.What can you do about this kind of existential boredom?My guest will share a remedy with us today on the show. His name is Kevin Hood Gary, and he’s a professor of education, specializing in the philosophy of education. We begin ... Show More
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