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Sep 2023
18m 12s

533 - What men say vs. what they mean

CASE KENNY
About this episode

In this episode, I provide mindful translations for what men say but mean something else. I translate: "We should hang out sometime." "My ex was crazy." "You deserve better than me." "I don't know if I'm ready for a relationship." "I'm not the relationship type." Why are you single?"

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