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Sep 2023
12m 9s

Is being 'thick' a 'gay' thing?

JAMES BARR AND DAN HUDSON
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Dan thinks that James might pretend to be "thick" to fit a gay stereotype? This goes down well 😂 and James wonders if Dan thinks "all straight people are boring", prompting a lively exchange. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices 
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