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Sep 2023
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#209 Seeking Validation?

Dr. Heidi
About this episode
I talk to a lot of people in a week, and I find myself referring them to the podcast episodes that I feel resonate with what they are needing right NOW. For those who are seeking validation that it is not all your fault, that you are not crazy, that you have tried your best; for those who have just begun there journey of learning what an unhealthy relationsh ... Show More
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