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Sep 2023
25m 32s

Holy Sh*t This Is Really Happening

Dear Media
About this episode

Join me for my first solo episode! Let's start at the beginning and dig a little into my journey of self-discovery through relationships, how my voice and image has been controlled since I was just 17, and realizing how that tough girl that everyone saw on Laguna Beach and The Hills was actually me overcompensating for the lack I felt within myself. Also, this is really the first time in my entire life that I'm actively dating and get ready because we are going to talk about that a LOT. So, let's set things up with what my single journey has been like for the past 3.5 years, my biggest issue with the press, and why I don't care if you hate me for something I did. Oh, and I've got to tell you about my recent trip to Greece! It was wild.


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