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Sep 2023
25m 32s

Holy Sh*t This Is Really Happening

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About this episode
Join me for my first solo episode! Let's start at the beginning and dig a little into my journey of self-discovery through relationships, how my voice and image has been controlled since I was just 17, and realizing how that tough girl that everyone saw on Laguna Beach and The Hills was actually me overcompensating for the lack I felt within myself. Also, th ... Show More
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