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Sep 2023
48m 51s

Inspire Your Partner: Relationship Reali...

Dr. Phil McGraw
About this episode

Dr. Phil McGraw and Dr. Justin Lehmiller, discuss topics related to sexuality and relationships. They talk about the importance of inspiring and encouraging your partner rather than controlling them. Dr. Lehmiller shares his background in studying human sexuality and his interest in exploring sexual fantasies and desires. They address how the American culture appears sexually open but is actually repressed, and how people often feel uncomfortable discussing sex, even in therapy sessions.

Learn about the importance of open communication, normalizing sexual desires, and building strong, trusting relationships.

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