Aug 2024

Trusting The Exclusive Path - J's Transformation Story

My client shares her story of going from dating to exclusive (and now engaged!) Learn more about coaching: www.ambergrubenmann.com/coaching Schedule a free coaching session with Amber here: https://calendly.com/amberelaineg/free-recorded-coaching Follow me on Instagram: https://w ... Show More

53m 44s

Mar 2024

Don't Work On Your Relationship, Maintain It.

In this episode, we will talk about the difference between working on a relationship vs maintaining a relationship that works. Enroll/ join the waitlist for coaching: www.ambergrubenmann.com/coaching Schedule a free coaching session with Amber here: https://calendly.com/amberelai ... Show More

6m 23s

Mar 2024

Psychology & Dating w/ Nadine Neukirch

In this episode, my former client, and now friend- and dating coach comes on to have a conversation about what we have learned about dating through our own experiences and through coaching. Learn more about Nadine! https://www.nadineneukirch.com/ Enroll/ join the waitlist for coa ... Show More

49m 18s

Sep 2024

256. Is dating becoming an idol for you?.

In this episode we chat.... Why it's VERY HARMFUL to "see" how things are going and "wait it out" when you KNOW he is a walking dealbreaker How to STOP undermining your dealbreakers when you come across the "nice guy" the guy that seems like "the one" What it looks like to have d ... Show More

32m 1s

Jun 2022

getting unfollowed

Is Instagram over? What does it mean when you get unfollowed by someone? How many people do you have muted?? This week Ben talks all things Instagram from awkward encounters post-unfollowing a person, to the absurd things people do for likes, and why we should all stop taking the ... Show More

35m 38s

Nov 2024

262. What Dating a Provider ACTUALLY Means

This is the LAST EPISODE of 2024! Can you believe it? brb be back Jan 2025 habibti! In this episode we chat: My thoughts on the conversation around "gold diggers" in dating when it comes to women dating providers Why I believe ONLY dating a man for his money (as in NOT CARING abo ... Show More

29m 1s

Oct 2024

(Matt Monday): How to Attract People Who WANT Commitment

Why is it that we seem to be attracted to certain people who only give us scraps of attention? It often happens when we tell ourselves that someone is so rare and desirable that they’re worth holding on to even if they don’t want the same things as us. In today’s episode, I’ll sh ... Show More

18m 11s

Feb 2025

A FRIEND TO ALL IS A FRIEND TO NONE

Have you ever opened up to a friend about a situation where someone deeply hurt or betrayed you, just to have that friend turn their back on you and befriend that person? In today's episode, I talk about what the quote "a friend to all is a friend to none" means, the importance o ... Show More

32m 7s

Oct 2024

(Matt Monday): How to Make Someone Choose YOU (Even if They Have Lots of Options)

Have you struggled to find people who actually want commitment? Do you feel like you’re always trying to persuade someone why a relationship is a good thing? Dating can feel harder than ever in 2024. In today’s episode, I explain why so many people are anxious about commitment, ... Show More

14m 37s

Sep 2024

When TO reach Out After 3 Months Of No Contact

It’s tricky to know when to reach out to an avoidant attached partner. This episode. helps you to make that decision, but also talks about whites. Important to stay away and what happens in the minds of an avoidant attached partner as they’re taking space. It also helps you to ... Show More

11m 25s

Sep 2024

(Rewind): If They Pull Away, Text This Response...

What can you do when you feel like you're getting excuses and feel they're pulling away in their texts? If you don't want to play games, here's a simple way you can be honest, vulnerable, but still keep your standards when you respond. ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Questi ... Show More

10m 19s

You Like Him, But What Will Your Friends...