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Aug 2023
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Ask Uncut - Can you expect monogamy if y...

BRITTANY HOCKLEY AND LAURA BYRNE
About this episode

Hey Lifers!

There's a lot going on today: ringworm, TV free lives, and pre peacocking.

Big question for ya, if you are in a long term relationship and you stop wanting to have sex (for any reasons), can you/should you 'allow' your partner to fulfil their sexual desires somewhere else?


There are so many factors that come into play with this question, and we unpack the grey areas.

Vibes for the week:
Laura:  Errr not having a TV
Britt: Cruel Summer on Prime video
Keeshia: Only murders in the building on Disney+

Then we jump into your questions:

  • Should I feel guilty about having a sex dream about one of my boyfriend’s single friends? This is maybe the second time I’ve ever had a sex dream and I woke up very horny. 
  • My partner and I have been together for 8 years. Within the next few months he is going to receive a portion of his inheritance from the sale of the family business. It is a huge amount (8 figures). He sat me down last night and explained to me that (his exact words) he did not trust me with his money and he wants me to sign a prenup/binding financial agreement before he receives it. I'm really hurt by the way he has raised this issue. Am I right to feel upset or am I overreacting?
  • I separated from my husband of 12 years about 2 years ago, it was a defence family so I spent a lot of my marriage alone looking after our 2 young kids whilst he was away and feeling very alone, unsupported and unimportant compared to his work. I became very depressed. I have recently started dating someone & he is a widow. His girlfriend passed away 3 years ago with cancer. He has had flings but nothing more since. Now after we spend time together he feels guilty and depressed because of his grief. I understand this is very normal. My question is… do I persist or will I be 2nd to something else again? This sounds wrong but I suffered years of never feeling like I was the priority. 

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