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Jul 2013
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PW 363: New to poly; same old drama

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In this advice episode, a listener asks what to do. He's new to poly and kink and dating a submissive who is monogamous, married and concealing the relationship from her husband.

The power of introverts and orgasms at the gym. Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit www.polyweekly.com or www.facebook.com/polyweekly

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