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Aug 2023
13m 30s

Why Being Afraid To Be Yourself Will Cos...

Lori Harder | YAP Media
About this episode

Confession: I'm struggling to maintain an online persona that aligns with who I am in real life. I know this is rooted in fear of criticism or backlash, and it's holding me back from expressing my authentic self and making genuine connections with my audience. If you're in the same boat, know you're not alone! In this episode, I'm challenging myself to embrace my gift for storytelling on all of my platforms and inviting you to take a moment to reflect on your online presence. What parts of your true self are you not revealing? 


IN THIS EPISODE:

- Tips for finding your authentic voice in your online persona 

- Overcoming the fear of revealing your whole self on social media

- Connecting with your message so your audience will connect with you 

- Advice for staying committed to the slow but meaningful journey toward authenticity


RESOURCES

- Text DAILY to 310-496-8363 for daily manifesting affirmations and journal prompts. 


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