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Aug 2023
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The Three Stages Of A Relationship ft. D...

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
About this episode

On today’s episode, I sit down with therapist Dr. Darcy Sterling. Darcy and I discuss the three important stages of a relationship and how to get to the third, the work you need to do on yourself before dating seriously, why the beginning is so important in love, the importance of switching up your therapist, how you should feel after therapy, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I opine on recent polls and their results.

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