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Aug 2023
1h 32m

Therapist Flirts With Client

Kirk Honda
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Dr Kirk reviews a case in which a therapist flirts with a client.

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00:00 Individual therapy within a family

10:35 Transfer & countertransference

20:50 Attraction to a client

40:24 Distortions & personality disorders

50:10 Therapist red flags

1:03:11 Emotional violations


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