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Aug 2023
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675 - Richard was a Solo Swinger, then i...

Kathy Kay
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Richard started out as a solo swinger and then was in a sexless marriage and now he is in an open relationship. How and why did he start solo swinging? How and why did he wind up in a sexless marriage? And, how did he wind up in his current open relationship? Tune in to hear all the details including his losing h9is virginity story that involved a threesome, how and why he moved to Amsterdam and his experiences with sex workers, how to sex workers are protected and taken care of because it’s legalized, the differences he noticed between the women from different countries and the ones he liked and didn’t like as well as the ones he liked the best an why, how int swingers club and why, how being well hung helped him become super popular with couples and how and why that became his fave thing, how and why he then decided to get married, when he realized she was super vanilla and how and why he decided to stick around for so long, what happened to his wife that made it hard for him to cheat even though he wanted to, how he eventually did cheat and how his wife found out, how he decided after his divorce to be honest from the beginning about all the things he was into and how that led him to a young girl who appreciated his honesty and not only accepted what he was into but was into it, how they are now planning to have a threesome and have already arranged an orgy at the end of the year, how he decided he was bi curious and how she felt about it, the bdsm clubs they attend now and how far they go when they’re there, how they’ve tried pegging and how and why he loves it so much plus a whole lot more.


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