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Aug 2023
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110. Flirting, Motherhood, and Cultural ...

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We’re back again with Alexys part 2 in Asking For A Friend! The girls continue the conversation by talking about jealousy and how your partner flirting with a different person does not immediately mean attraction. Alexys opens up owning a small business, the mental struggles that come with it, and why she decided to go part-time. Alexys asks Jess raw questions about her upcoming "stepping into motherhood" and why people connect Polyamory with "white people shit".


In this episode of Open Late:


• Understanding the truth about flirting 

• Owning a small business and "monetizing" your passions

• Stepping into Motherhood and having hard conversations with your kids

• "White people shit" and different cultural views on Polyamory


Connect with Alexys:

• Instagram: @cakesbyalexys


Cynthia's Nixon viral “Be a Lady They Said” Video:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z8ZSDS7zVdU


Connect with Jessica:

• Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast

• Website: openlatepodcast.com 

• YouTube: Open Late Podcast

• What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz

• Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp

Open Late Dictionary


3:15 Emotional intelligence, just from my end, shows up in a way that is authentic. - Alexys Calhoun


4:02 After an argument with my partner, I had to tell him “You don't always have to fix it. I just didn't like your tone”. - Alexys Calhoun


5:12 We oversexualize everything in this country. – Jessica Esfandiary


17:03 Women are more coded. Like we are afraid to reveal ourselves. – Jessica Esfandiary


18:15 I’m a direct person, which is apparently not okay when you have a vagina. - Alexys Calhoun


22:50 You don't have to monetize your passion. - Alexys Calhoun


25:38 It is great when a woman can take something and catapult into a new realm. – Jessica Esfandiary 


26:53 And if you don't want to show it. That's okay too. - Alexys Calhoun


29:25 If your only argument is that "it's not okay for the kids", then you are probably not a good parent because you cannot have those open dialogues with your kids. - Alexys Calhoun


32:58 If you look at the nuclear family, you are just seeing people that are way under-resourced, barely surviving. - Jessica Esfandiary


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