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Aug 2023
21m 31s

Essential Skills that Shaped a Leader

Essential Communications - Tom Henschel
About this episode

A senior leader, having risen through the ranks, ends her coaching engagement by comparing notes with her coach about the skills that have helped her most. 

This episode identified seven essential leadership skills:

  • Conquer catastrophic thinking;
  • Use fewer words;
  • Value relationships as highly as results;
  • Don’t take anything personally;
  • Commitment to Development;
  • Reflection;
  • Speak for Yourself.

Resources to develop those last three:

Commitment to Development

The Ability to Reflect

Speak for Yourself


Episodes to build assertion:

This month’s episode lives in our podcast library in these three categories:

Executive Presence
Leadership
Self-Talk


Five episodes to help you with different skills are:

Building Empathy
“Don’t Take Anything Personally”
The Executive Executive
Personal Connections
Short Sounds Confident


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Until next month, be well!

From Tom and everyone at The Look & Sound of Leadership, thanks!

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