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Aug 2023
13m 54s

Differences Between Coaching and Therapy

Jessica Da Silva, LMFT
About this episode
In this episode, I share some major differences between coaching and therapy, in order to help you identify which approach is best for you. I also share why I transitioned from working as a Mental Health Therapist to an Attachment Coach. ——— Attachment Coaching: https://jessicadasilvacoaching.com/coach-with-me-2/  
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