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Jul 2023
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226. Enneagram: Why You Are the Way You ...

Glennon Doyle and Audacy
About this episode

Enneagram Godmother Suzanne Stabile guides us through: What the hell is the Enneagram and why does it matter? 


  • The gifts and struggles each Enneagram type faces;
  • Why the worst part of you is also the BEST part of you;
  • The core desire / fear that explains your behavior; and 
  • Why, if Suzanne ever needs brain surgery, she’s finding a doctor who’s an Enneagram 1.


And we FINALLY answer the question: Is Amanda a 3 or a 1?  


(Also meet back here tomorrow for a bonus episode where Suzanne uses the Enneagram to fix our relationships.)


About Suzanne:

Suzanne Stabile is an internationally-recognized Enneagram teacher. She is the co-author of The Road Back to You, and the author of The Path Between Us and The Journey Toward Wholeness.

With backgrounds in sociology and theology, Suzanne has served as a high school professor; the first women’s basketball coach at SMU after Title IX; and as the founding Director of Shared Housing, a social service agency in Dallas.

Suzanne lives in Dallas with her husband Rev. Joseph Stabile. She is the mother of four children and grandmother of nine.

TW: @SuzanneStabile

IG: @suzannestabile

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