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Encore: S04 Ep. 04 - Elise’s Angry Siste...

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This week, we’re in session with Elise, who wants to have a better relationship with her angry older sister. We help Elise to see her sister’s perspective so she can approach her with empathy–and how to know when repair might not be possible.

 

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