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Jun 2023
29m 40s

How to Talk to People: How to Know Your ...

THE ATLANTIC
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Are commitment issues impacting our ability to connect with the people who live around us? Relationship building may involve a commitment to the belief that neighbors are worthy of getting to know. In this episode of How to Talk to People, author Pete Davis makes the case for building relationships with your neighbors and wider community and offers some prac ... Show More
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