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Jun 2023
1h 13m

you’re not ugly, you’re poor

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About this episode
This week Chelsey & Jaci candidly discuss the pressures and expectations of modern day beauty standards. They break down how much it costs to keep up with health & wellness & beauty trends, talk about plastic surgery urges, comparison, & so much more. Shop our MERCH! Shop.DearMedia.com/WHATWESAID Shop our Jewelry Collection with EVRY Jewels h ... Show More
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