logo
episode-header-image
Jun 2023
1h 11m

4 Essential Trust-Building Practices to ...

iHeartPodcasts
About this episode

Have you been wanting to get over your failures? You won’t want to miss this episode.

Today we explore the themes of overcoming failures and emerging stronger than ever with myself and Elizabeth Day

Join us as we dive into the profound insights on how to navigate the pain of heartbreak and find love once more, the significance of earning trust rather than freely giving it, and the invaluable lessons embedded within our failures, which serve as stepping stones toward personal growth and unparalleled success.

This episode is hope for anyone striving to pursue their goals, persevere through adversity, and embrace the fullness of life.

Whether you find yourself wanting a fresh start after a breakup, seeking guidance on building meaningful connections, or simply seeking inspiration to transform setbacks into opportunities, this episode holds immeasurable value for you.

Together, we unravel the essence of resilience and the power of harnessing failure as a catalyst for growth.

Today we learn-

  • The ways to finding love and jay after heartbreak
  • How to foster authentic trust in relationships
  • Embracing failures as invaluable lessons
  • Finding the path to personal and professional success
  • How to find resilience and grow from challenges

This one will leave a mark on your journey of self-discovery. Don’t miss this one!With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

  • 00:00 Intro
  • 01:32 Do you feel happy and successful? Is it genuine?
  • 04:32 Do you have one consistent purpose or does it shift everyday?
  • 07:45 The 3-step method to check if what you’re doing is aligned with your purpose
  • 11:49 This is the reason why breakups are painful and why we shouldn’t push it aside
  • 15:00 Why does trust need to be earned and not just easily given away?
  • 21:29 Define love before you say it or feel it. Love means different things for different people.
  • 23:51 What’s your favorite romantic comedy of all time?
  • 27:19 What is your concept of failure? What about the milestones that society has set?
  • 31:51 What is the earliest failure you’ve had?
  • 37:13 Have you ever felt unlovable? How did you cope?
  • 40:31 Why do we always seek validation from other people?
  • 47:11 Is it considered a failure when you end up becoming someone people don’t normally aim to become?
  • 55:16 Sometimes, things that don’t work out may lead to an opening to a better path
  • 57:17 How does one become a good manager and leader?  


Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Up next
Yesterday
Nara Smith: ‘The Comments and the Hate Got to Me. I Was Crying Every Single Day.’ The REAL Story Behind Her Viral Persona, Online Criticism & Discovering Her Self-Worth
Have you been pretending to be okay? Is there something you’ve been keeping inside? Today, Jay welcomes model, digital creator, and mother of three, Nara Smith, for an intimate conversation that blends vulnerability, wisdom, and humility. Known online for her serene ASMR-style co ... Show More
1h 33m
Jul 7
Dr. Orna Gurlanik: Struggling to Communicate With Your Partner? THIS One Habit Could Slowly Be Destroying Your Relationship! (Here’s How to Catch It Before It’s Too Late!)
Do you ever feel like you're having the same fight over and over again? Why is it so hard to be in a relationship with someone who is different from you? Today, Jay sits down with Dr. Orna Guralnik — the world-renowned clinical psychologist, psychoanalyst, and lead therapist on t ... Show More
1h 42m
Jul 4
Feeling Unsupported, Misunderstood, or Doubted? You Are Not Alone! (THIS 7-Step Method Will Help Silence the Self Doubt And Build REAL Confidence)
Has anyone ever doubted something you were excited about? Have you ever felt judged for trying something different? Today, Jay opens up about one of the most painful yet common experiences: feeling unsupported, unseen, or misunderstood by the people closest to us. He unpacks the ... Show More
30m 57s
Recommended Episodes
Jun 2024
#405 - Taking Your Power Back After a Breakup
One of the most difficult things about a breakup is the way it can leave you feeling disempowered. Getting your heart smashed by the one you love most sends you on a journey you never wanted to go on... but taking charge of your life in the aftermath of a breakup helps you emerge ... Show More
33m 13s
Jun 2022
159. You Hold the Power to Attract the Relationship You’ve Always Wanted
For most of us love is (or at least was) an elusive mystery we could only dream of. That’s why today I’m so excited to welcome my guest Crystal Irom, a Love Coach specifically for successful women. As if women didn’t have it hard enough these days, amiright? Why is it that especi ... Show More
42m 19s
Sep 2023
Dr. Annie Zimmerman - How to Know You've Found the Perfect Partner and Thrive in Dating
Today's guest is London-based psychologist Dr. Annie Zimmerman, who goes by Your Pocket Therapist on Instagram where she has over 250,000 followers. As part of our miniseries on presenting a variety of perspectives on love and romance, I reached out to Annie because she avoids th ... Show More
1h 15m
Aug 2023
#173: The Beauty of “Failure”
Have you ever thought to yourself, “I feel like a failure”? As a Type A, self-motivated, achievement-driven kind of person, failure is something you might feel often… even when you haven’t actually failed. The worst kind of failure is when you don’t meet your OWN expectation of s ... Show More
21m 53s
May 2024
4 STEPS to a THRIVING Relationship: Why 80% of Relationships END (How to Repair Love!)
In this episode of The School of Greatness, Lewis brings together four renowned relationship experts to share their wisdom on creating and sustaining meaningful love. Esther Perel, a psychotherapist and best-selling author of Mating in Captivity, explores how to build strong foun ... Show More
59m 9s
Jun 2024
#404 - Overcoming the Fear of Being 'Single Forever'
Will you be single forever? If you've been dating for a while and struggling to find your person, then I'll bet this thought has crossed your mind at some point. Maybe it's something you think about a lot. And the prospect of being single forever can be scary! We all crave deep c ... Show More
33m 29s
Mar 2017
Overcoming General Unease - When Nothing Works Out in Life - Questioning Trust in Relationships
Are you walking around with an undertone of fear, anxiety, panic, or nervousness? What do you feel when nothing in general is happening in your life? What's your balance point or "homeostatic state"? When an uncomfortable or sad cloud follows you around all the time, it's hard to ... Show More
51m 37s
Aug 2022
There’s No Fairytale Ending w/ Todd Baratz
It can be a hard pill to swallow, but you can’t also become the person you want to be if you’re stuck in the past. There’s no fairytale or storybook ending if you don’t fix what’s within, but that doesn’t mean you have to do it alone!Today we welcome sex and relationships therapi ... Show More
1h 8m
Nov 2021
133. Why You’re Successful & Ambitious and Struggle With Dating
In this episode of the Self Love Fix podcast, we’re talking about how being successful, ambitious, and accomplished can sometimes actually stand in your way when it comes to dating. We sometimes have the tendency to treat dating like a job interview, which doesn’t really lend its ... Show More
23m 54s
Sep 2021
124. You Are More Than Worthy
In this episode, we’ll be talking about what happens when you choose self love over codependency. What does your life actually look like when you choose to believe in your worthiness?   Some points we’ll discuss include: Trusting Your Instincts Shattering Limiting Beliefs Discove ... Show More
17m 48s