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May 2023
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EP335 - Steamy Encounters: Unleashing th...

Dr. Nazanin Moali, Ph.d, Psychology Of Sex | Couple Therapy | Sex Education
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Welcome to episode 335 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Ness Cooper to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss shower sex experiences, benefits, drawbacks, techniques, and accommodating diverse preferences and situations. 

 

Ness Cooper is a Sex and Relationship Expert with over ten years of experience. She has helped individuals, couples, and those in polyamorous relationships find fluidity in intimacy and pleasure. She has a background in counselling with a focus on sex and relationships and has trained in the UK as well as internationally. 

  

Ness has trained in youth sex education and is part of the esteem network by acet. Her favorite study has been studying with the Kinsey Institute of Human Sexuality, and therapy courses run by TASHRA. Ness is kink positive and has trained in kink education and has a paper on BDSM and disabilities coming out in 2022. 

  

She runs a popular Sex Toy review blog. Ness is regularly quoted in the press and has been mentioned in a book about female sexual fantasies "Garden of Desire". Not only does Ness coach people in human sexuality, but she also teaches other professionals on various subjects around sexual wellbeing. 

  

Wanting to learn as much as possible, she has also trained in Pelvic Floor Biomechanics, sea sponges, pessaries, and mental health safeguarding. 

  

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • How most people prefer shower sex over beach sex based on a recent poll. 
  •  The benefits of shower sex including different sensations, temperature variations, privacy, and different positions. 
  • Establishing boundaries in shower sex, consider order of entry, temperature preferences, lubricant choice, and sex toy integration. 
  • Recommended sex toys for shower use include heated vibrators, glass and metal toys, suction handrails, and specialized furniture. 
  • Health concerns during shower sex may include proper cleaning of the shower head 
  • How positions such as spooning while standing can be a good introduction to shower sex. 
  • The importance of aftercare for vulva owners and neurodivergent individuals. 

 

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