Find Someone Who Has Compatible Trauma

<p>Have you noticed that it feels like we are all in a giant pressure cooker? That the discomfort, maybe even pain and pressure is going up and up and up and up? And the relief never seems to come? You may have found yourself wondering what the hell is happening. Well, there is a ... Show More

<p>A common trap is thinking that doing shadow work in and of itself changes your life FOR you. But it MUST be followed by action to have real impact on your life. So that you can understand this better, Teal Swan dives into it this week.</p> 

Most people don’t really understand that love is something that people want to give. In fact, to give love is a human need. And they don’t see that a person feels loved when the love they give is fully received. Let's dive into that in this episode. 

<p>If you’re in a romantic relationship and found yourself wondering “are we compatible?”, “is love enough?”, or “what if we don’t have chemistry?”, this episode will help you understand the difference between compatibility and chemistry. It will also give you a framework to eval ... Show More

<p>How do you know when you’ve found the one or if you’re even compatible with someone?Whether you’re messaging someone on a dating app, dating someone right now, or you’ve been with someone for a while, knowing why compatibility is important is key.Today we’ll look at 3 reasons ... Show More

A relationship built around trauma can be difficult to spot because they can feel "right" in so many ways. They fulfill deep needs created by past traumas and we tend to mistake that fulfillment for closeness and connection. The bonds and beliefs created by these wounds can be so ... Show More

A healthy relationship is energizing and allows for each partner to be the best version of themselves without judgement. On the other hand, an unhealthy relationship leaves you feeling drained, anxious, and hesitant to be your true self. To help better understand if you're in an ... Show More

<p>Trauma deeply challenges our sense of safety and security in the world, which often has an impact on relationships. It's natural for those who have suffered trauma to feel that building close relationships is frightening because they don't want to experience more hurt. Someone ... Show More

<p>Today, I’m going to share with you the difference between chemistry and compatibility, why we often mistake having strong chemistry and attraction to our partner as compatibility, and how these two are completely different but related at the same time.</p><p>We get to dive int ... Show More

There are many reasons why we may not have a very healthy model for relationships. But today, I wanted to talk about how you begin to recognize when you're in an unhealthy relationship: 1) When you start to feel like everything you do is wrong. 2) You can't be yourself and, you'r ... Show More

Relationships are not easy, and they are not always painful or difficult either. In this episode I talk about how something’s that we hear and see can really mess up our ideas about what a ‘perfect relationship’ is and what can we expect from a long-term relationship.