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May 2023
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64: Are you nurturing your "inner relati...

NATALIE KENNEDY
About this episode

It's easy to focus on our partners and neglect our own "inner relationship." In this episode, my friend Luci Lampe and I discuss the balance between our masculine and feminine sides - yin and yang - for a better partnership. We also talk about aspects of the feminine archetypes that live within all of us that are often shamed and exiled – like the "slut" and the "crazy bitch"-- and how to love and utilize these parts in ways that serve us, so we can be more authentic, free, and full of aliveness.

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Time Stamps:

5:33 What is masculine/feminine union, and why is it important?

18:30 Collaborating in our masculine and feminine strengths

22:25 Toxic contexts for polarity

27:30 Getting sideswept by other potential partners when you are in crisis

29:00 The difference between dumping your emotions on someone and revealing your heart

31:00 The three exiled parts of the feminine: the slut, the witch and the crazy bitch

38:30  Properly integrating the exiled parts of the feminine

44:34  Being attuned to your body: a key to self trust

48:50  Coming into union with the masculine

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