It's easy to focus on our partners and neglect our own "inner relationship." In this episode, my friend Luci Lampe and I discuss the balance between our masculine and feminine sides - yin and yang - for a better partnership. We also talk about aspects of the feminine archetypes that live within all of us that are often shamed and exiled – like the "slut" and the "crazy bitch"-- and how to love and utilize these parts in ways that serve us, so we can be more authentic, free, and full of aliveness.
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Time Stamps:
5:33 What is masculine/feminine union, and why is it important?
18:30 Collaborating in our masculine and feminine strengths
22:25 Toxic contexts for polarity
27:30 Getting sideswept by other potential partners when you are in crisis
29:00 The difference between dumping your emotions on someone and revealing your heart
31:00 The three exiled parts of the feminine: the slut, the witch and the crazy bitch
38:30 Properly integrating the exiled parts of the feminine
44:34 Being attuned to your body: a key to self trust
48:50 Coming into union with the masculine