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May 2023
11m 48s

Why People Disappear When You Show Inter...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
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Have you ever felt like the moment you show you really like someone, they start to lose interest? It can make you feel like you ALWAYS have to play games or be "hard-to-get" in order to keep their attention. But is this really true? In this episode, Matthew and Stephen explain the reasons this can happen and what it really means if someone backs off when you decide you like them.


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