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May 2023
26m 24s

The Power of No

Black Love Podcast Network
About this episode

Hearing the word "No" can be difficult to hear as an adult.  Now, imagine a child hearing the word "No." It can send even the most calm toddler into a fit of rage. Today, Charisse chats about how hearing the word "no" doesn't have to be a negative thing for your child. She discusses how saying "no" to your child and helping them to understand WHY you are saying "no," can help them learn to cope when things don’t go their way.

 

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Credits:

Host: Charisse Sims

Senior Producer: Krystal Hill

Associate Podcast Producer: Mike Bryant

Editor: Mike Bryant

Art: Starline Hodge & Coi Mattison 

Executive Producers: Codie Elaine Oliver & Tommy Oliver

Content Distributor: Black Love Podcast Network

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