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May 2023
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#164 People Pleasing and Breakups with N...

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I'm so excited to share today's episode with author, podcaster, and writer Natalie Lue. She's written multiple books but today we explore her book The Joy of Saying No and all about people pleasing. Natalie talks about the different kinds of people pleasing (I had no idea there were different kinds), how people pleasing affects how impactful a breakup can fe ... Show More
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