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May 2023
1h 39m

E579 Ask Nick - My Dad Stole My Girlfrie...

Nick Viall
About this episode

Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We’re back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we discuss “icks” in relationships and if men have become more self-conscious about women having them. We then read a listener’s email who hooked up with a guy only to have him tell her that he is getting out of a long term relationship and isn’t sure he’s ready to move forward. 

Our first caller went on a couple dates with a woman before his dad decided to pursue a relationship with her (and break up his marriage and family). He isn’t sure if he should reach out to his father and attempt to mend the relationship, or if too much has happened. Our second caller found her boyfriend’s ED meds and isn’t sure how to address the situation. They are currently long distance, but he is planning on moving across the country. Our final caller is still living with her boyfriend after he broke up with her because she’s unable to afford their apartment by herself. They also have a trip planned, and she’s unsure if she should still go. 

“I can’t control my dad’s d*ck!” 

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