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May 2023
29m 42s

4 Stages of Life and Love & How to Estab...

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About this episode

Today, I am going to share with you a conversation I had with Anna Martin from the Modern Love podcast. In this conversation, I share my journey and the life struggles I had after I left the ashram, learning more about love and dating, and the different types of love we can share to different people.

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Key Takeaways:

  • 00:00 Intro
  • 02:58 A chance encounter that totally changed Jay’s life forever
  • 05:03 The two things we can learn from the monks and use in our daily life.
  • 06:06 A peak at Jay’s Modern Love essay.
  • 07:09 Every person you interact with is a mirror of your ego
  • 08:49 Realizing that the path you’re in isn’t the real path for you
  • 11:39 Returning to the real world and relearning how to date again
  • 13:56 A peak at Jay’s essay about his first date with his wife Radhi
  • 15:26 We often we underestimate how strongly our conditioning and wiring leads our life 
  • 17:48 Acknowledging your partner’s deep connection with family 
  • 18:25 The four stages of life and the different types of love we can share

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