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Apr 2023
38m 13s

How to Initiate (If You Never Do)

Dr. Emily Morse
About this episode
There’s often someone who initiates the sex, and someone who says “yes” or “no.” These roles can work long-term, but what happens when sexual initiations become a problem? When you’re always hearing no, or when you always say no? On today’s show, I'm talking about sexual initiations and how to make this moment a better experience for all. When you’re the ini ... Show More
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