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Apr 2023
55m 30s

Changing Your Mindset Around Dating with...

CARA ALWILL
About this episode

I discovered Mayssa Chehata on TikTok a few months back and instantly loved her approach to life and love. As a fellow entrepreneur and young divorcee, Mayssa shares a similar perspective as I do when it comes to dating. In this raw and honest conversation, we discuss how to date from a place of empowerment rather than from our trauma, how to drop the shame around being ghosted or rejected by a man, how app culture has changed dating, and more. Pour a glass of wine and get ready to dive into this juicy chat!

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