Gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men are increasingly finding sexual partners through apps such as Grindr. These apps haven’t just changed the way people find partners, though, they’ve also changed queer men and gay culture in major ways, some of which have been positive, while others have been negative. So let’s talk about the good, bad, ... Show More
Nov 6
Episode 551: Why It's Harder To Talk About Sex Than Have It
For something that so many of us enjoy doing, sex can be surprisingly difficult to talk about. We might feel comfortable getting naked with a partner but struggle to tell them what we want, what we don't enjoy, or how we're really feeling. And when we avoid these conversations, i ... Show More
29m 31s
Nov 3
Episode 550: Are We Teaching People To Be Bad Lovers?
Most of us spend years learning about sex before we ever have it. We absorb messages from our families, friends, schools, pornography, and popular culture about what sex is supposed to look like and how we're supposed to behave. But what if some of those lessons are actually sett ... Show More
35m 8s
Oct 30
Episode 549: How Men Can Have Better Sex
A lot of men feel pressure to perform in the bedroom. They worry about getting and maintaining erections, lasting long enough, and satisfying their partners. But these concerns can sometimes get in the way of the very thing they're trying to achieve, which is a pleasurable and sa ... Show More
33m 58s
Jun 2024
REPLAY: Boyslut with Zachary Zane
Original Air Date: May 22, 2023Kayla is joined by sex activist, columnist, and author Zachary Zane to discuss his personal journey in healing from sexual shame and living with OCD as a bisexual man. If you’re ready to get out of your comfort zone and also have some laughs along t ... Show More
45m 12s
Aug 2023
Talking Shit with Zachary Zane: Sex is a Huge Part of My Sexuality
<p>In Episode 54, we are joined by author and bisexual icon, Zachary Zane, of the book Boyslut. We talk about bisexual men, biphobia, and bisexual audibility. We discuss sexual shame, sexual risk, and the complexities of consent. An unabashedly pro-sex, pro-desire writer, Zachary ... Show More
1h 14m
Jun 2021
Hookup Apps, Grooming, and Dating While Queer | #SwipingSafely
#SwipingSafely is our Pride month campaign dedicated to raising awareness around the exploitation of LGBTQ+ youth in online spaces and how we can facilitate safer experiences. Throughout June, we'll be doing 6 episodes surrounding this issue. We'll be joined by influencers, exper ... Show More
46m 21s
Sep 2023
EP 503 Body Dysmorphia, Turnoffs in Adult Film, Quiet Sex? Flirting Advice
<p>On a new TAGS LIVE aka Talk About Gay Sex podcast, the live edition, Host Stevie and Co-host Kodi Maurice Doggette are back with all new LGBTQ topics, sex and relationship advice and more:<br /><ul><li>Comments from listeners!</li><li>Gus Kenworthy on body dysmorphia and being ... Show More
56m 32s
Apr 2025
Ep 40: Kink, community, and transformation
The massive variety of human sexual interests is a little mind-boggling. As what we consider to be sexually typical continues to be expanded and shaped by the internet and popular culture, psychologists are making efforts to research kinks and members of the kink community like n ... Show More
38m 12s