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Mar 2023
35m 39s

Developmental Wounds and How EMDR Can He...

SHERRY GABA AND CARLA ROMO
About this episode

Sherry starts off with a story about a date who was waving some big red flags, and then she and Carla take a Love Fix Question on how to stop second guessing yourself. They then welcome Tim Sosin, LPC, NCC, an internationally certified trauma therapy specialist, EMDR, therapist and licensed professional counselor. Since trauma is such a common denominator within the lives of so many, Tim has devoted his career to trauma liberation, relational reconciliation, and the recovery process. Everything he does is informed by a desire to see people break through the barriers holding them back.

 

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Today’s episode is sponsored by Carla’s book Contagious Love: Break Free from Codependency for Damn Good and Sherry’s book Love Smacked: How To Stop the Cycle of Relationship Addiction and Codependency To Find Everlasting Love 

 

Thanks to Contagious Love and Love Smacked for sponsoring this episode.

 

What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

  • What is EMDR?

  • What are developmental wounds, and how can they impact love and relationships?

  • How can past trauma impact people’s attachment styles and relationships?

  • What is a developmental wound and how does it impact love and relationships?

  • What does an EMDR session look like?

  • What Tim’s advice is for people just looking for a quick fix, and how trauma can actually help us become more self actualized.

  • What is life like after EMDR?

  • More from Tim’s work at Birthstone Trauma Healing, along with how to work with Sherry and Carla on overcoming codependency, dating, break-ups, healing from toxic relationships and gaining confidence.

 

Disclaimer: The Love Fix Podcast content has been made available for informational, entertainment, and educational purposes only. The Love Fix Podcast is distinctly different from coaching, counseling, psychotherapy, or psychoanalysis and does not deal with the diagnosis or treatment of emotional problems. The Love Fix podcast does not constitute medical consultation or treatment, health insurance does not apply.

 

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