Kindness cuts both ways in tango

In this episode, we read the chapter by Evelina Sarantopoulou from the Tango Tips by the Maestros Tango book, discovering how to simplify Argentine Tango by focusing on its essential principles instead of becoming overwhelmed by figures and technique. Learn how gravity can become ... Show More

Should tango dancers remain balanced on their own axis, or is the magic of the dance found in moments of shared balance and mutual support? In this episode, we explore one of tango's most fascinating technical debates: in-axis versus off-axis movement. We begin by defining what " ... Show More

In this episode, we read a chapter by Carla Dominguez and Julio Seffino from the Tango Tips by the Maestros Tango book, exploring the mental state behind leading and following in Argentine Tango. Learn why clear intention, patience, trust, body awareness, and comfort are essentia ... Show More

<p>In this banter I explore the (un)friendliness of the social tango scene and the different camps that people fall into regarding this topic. The topic was sparked by a recent article (https://therhinestone.medium.com/i-went-to-my-first-milonga-lets-talk-about-it-2a4a93192d2b ... Show More

<p>Today I dive into a difficult but important conversation about power dynamics and respect in the tango world. Prompted by a recent public incident during a performance, I explore how moments like this expose deeper issues within professional and social tango relationships.</p> ... Show More

<p>What limits us social dancers most is not the technical stuff, but rather the psychological and emotional stuff. Tango is notorious for causing conflict and many couples break up after starting to learn this dance, at least that’s what happened for me.<br/><br/>In this episode ... Show More

<p>Tango is famous for confusing people to the point that you might forget how to walk for a second or two. In this banter Alex and I cast a wide net as we talk about the parallels between tango and art. We then explore a few of the tango concepts that cause the most confusion an ... Show More

<p>In this episode, I explore the role of performances in tango, especially from the perspective of social dancers. While many tango enthusiasts find performances irrelevant or even off-putting, there’s a deeper conversation about how performances and social dancing intersect.</p ... Show More

<p>Have you ever been caught in the whirlwind of conflicting advice from tango teachers, each one claiming to hold the ultimate truth? In this reflective episode, we explore how the diverse styles of tango—Milonguero, Salon, and Nuevo—shape not only our movement but also the way ... Show More

<p>In this episode, I explore the topic of jealousy in tango. I reflect on my personal experience with jealousy and how it has affected my relationships. I discuss the different types of jealousy that tango dancers experience, particularly focusing on the insecurities and fears t ... Show More

<p>Tango seems so fancy at first, so many moves to learn, so much technique. But you talk to any seasoned dancer and they will tell you it’s really not about the moves… it’s really something else.<br/><br/>What is it that we are after on the dance floor? And what value do we brin ... Show More

<p>In this episode, I discuss the common experience of not wanting to dance with someone anymore and the associated feelings of guilt and embarrassment.</p> <p>I explore both interpersonal and technical reasons for this change in preference and share my own strategies for navigat ... Show More