#80. Payton sits down with friend, actress & influencer, Jami Alix, to talk about thriving in the messy middle of life. The two talk relationships (including Payton’s updated relationship status), the acting world, & much more. SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE MEMBERS COLLECTION: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self FOLLOW PAYTO ... Show More
Oct 8
3 Perspectives Making My Life Significantly Better Right Now
#267. This week, we’re talking about three ideas making my life materially better (none of them are for sale). Satisficing, raising my uncertainty threshold, and creating as a response to over-thinking. BTW– next week’s episode is my last episode before a fall break! FOLLOW PAYTO ... Show More
51m 14s
Oct 1
ASK P: breakups, post-college life, & virginity talk
#266. In this installment of ASK P, we’re hearing from listeners about surprise breakups, pending breakups, adapting to life post-college, and losing your virginity in your 20s. This is the last ASK P of 2026 — be back in 2027! FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonross https ... Show More
1 h
Sep 24
Cozy Fall Favorites (!!!): Style & Trends, Beauty, Rituals, Home, & More
#265. I’m back with a quarterly favorites episode, this time helping you achieve your coziest fall ever. We’re starting with style– think investment pieces, trends, where to shop– moving on to beauty favorites, home decor swaps, what I’m making in the kitchen, fall rituals, and m ... Show More
57m 25s
Jul 2025
A Girl-Talk Q&A: Fashion, Therapy, ADHD & Everything in Between
This week on Pretty Basic, Alisha and Remi are back with a juicy Q+A episode, answering all your burning questions—from our dogs' personalities to our current girl dinner obsessions. We’re chatting ADHD, anxiety, therapy, and how we're learning to set better routines (while still ... Show More
1h 18m
Oct 2024
The Girls are Fighting & How to Make Up!
On this candid episode, Alisha and Remi tackle listener questions, with Alisha sharing updates on her therapy journey and Remi navigating her cycle and other life stressors. From setting boundaries to TikTok rabbit holes, they spill all the tea on everything from bee pollen’s sup ... Show More
1h 7m
Mar 2023
Navigating Your Twenties with Payton Sartain | Friendship Break Ups, Creating Yourself, Changing What You Want & Slowing Down
Kenzie Elizabeth sits down with Note to Self host Payton Sartain to talk the soft girl lifestyle, friendship break ups, becoming so many different people in your twenties and other changes in your late twenties. Enjoy! SHOP MERCH OUT NOW: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/il ... Show More
1h 2m
Jul 2024
Confessions of a Retired Pick-Me
This Friday, Chelsey is joined by Abbey to give you their best sisterly advice! They talk about coping with family changes, hating your friend’s BF, being a recovering pick-me, red flags in relationships & MORE!Watch us on YouTube: WWS YouTube ChannelShop our MERCH! Shop.DearMedi ... Show More
1h 13m
Aug 2025
Did Alisha Hire a Private Investigator on Cal?!
This week we’re catching up on everything from our weekends to the most random (but iconic) life updates. Remi shares what it was like growing up as a minority in Orange County, embracing her Asian culture, and even reflecting on little Remi—plus, yes, she’s been thinking about b ... Show More
58m 11s