#80. Payton sits down with friend, actress & influencer, Jami Alix, to talk about thriving in the messy middle of life. The two talk relationships (including Payton’s updated relationship status), the acting world, & much more. SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE MEMBERS COLLECTION: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self FOLLOW PAYTO ... Show More
Aug 13
What I Needed to Give Up in Order to Gain Peace (*somewhat controversial)
#259. A re-release of a favorite, Things I Left Behind to Gain Peace, and some of these may be rather controversial. In every era of my life, whenever I notice I’m a little on-edge, I realize I’m more often in need of releasing what doesn’t suit me rather than adding to my life. ... Show More
1h 4m
Aug 6
How Hard Can It Be? Boys Do It — & Other Musings with MadsMitch
#258. Maddy has been one of my favorite people to follow on socials for years, so when I found out we were crossing paths in Los Angeles, I had to have her on NTS. We’re chatting about her fresh (somewhat traumatizing?) start in LA, the parts of going viral nobody posts about, wh ... Show More
57m 30s
Jul 30
The Return of the Party Girl
#257. Why is the party girl suddenly everywhere again? This week I trace the shift from clean girl and tradwife aesthetics to a messier, freer moment — the culture, the politics, the history of partying through hard times — plus the party girl commandments and my hoe theory. FOLL ... Show More
53m 49s
Jul 2025
A Girl-Talk Q&A: Fashion, Therapy, ADHD & Everything in Between
This week on Pretty Basic, Alisha and Remi are back with a juicy Q+A episode, answering all your burning questions—from our dogs' personalities to our current girl dinner obsessions. We’re chatting ADHD, anxiety, therapy, and how we're learning to set better routines (while still ... Show More
1h 18m
Oct 2024
The Girls are Fighting & How to Make Up!
On this candid episode, Alisha and Remi tackle listener questions, with Alisha sharing updates on her therapy journey and Remi navigating her cycle and other life stressors. From setting boundaries to TikTok rabbit holes, they spill all the tea on everything from bee pollen’s sup ... Show More
1h 7m
Mar 2023
Navigating Your Twenties with Payton Sartain | Friendship Break Ups, Creating Yourself, Changing What You Want & Slowing Down
Kenzie Elizabeth sits down with Note to Self host Payton Sartain to talk the soft girl lifestyle, friendship break ups, becoming so many different people in your twenties and other changes in your late twenties. Enjoy! SHOP MERCH OUT NOW: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/il ... Show More
1h 2m
Jul 2024
Confessions of a Retired Pick-Me
This Friday, Chelsey is joined by Abbey to give you their best sisterly advice! They talk about coping with family changes, hating your friend’s BF, being a recovering pick-me, red flags in relationships & MORE!Watch us on YouTube: WWS YouTube ChannelShop our MERCH! Shop.DearMedi ... Show More
1h 13m
Aug 2025
Did Alisha Hire a Private Investigator on Cal?!
This week we’re catching up on everything from our weekends to the most random (but iconic) life updates. Remi shares what it was like growing up as a minority in Orange County, embracing her Asian culture, and even reflecting on little Remi—plus, yes, she’s been thinking about b ... Show More
58m 11s