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Feb 2023
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597 - GIRL TALK: Lyra on Polyamory, BDSM...

Kathy Kay
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Lyra is into polyamory, bdsm and swinging and she called in to talk all about it. When did she realize she was poly? When did she realize she was into BDSM? And, when did she start swinging? Tune in for all the details including how and why she realized she was poly very early on, how and why she’s a masochist, her first poly experience with two women and how it all went down, how she is into hierarchal poly relationships but prefers the label anchor partner and what that all means, the apps she uses to hook up to meet people she plays with, the key to making poly relationships work, how to deal with the jealousy that comes up with having multiple partners, why jealousy is frowned upon in the poly community but shouldn’t be, the difference between being ethically non monogamous vs being polyamorous and how and why she considers herself both, how her connection with her anchor bf Carlos (episode #589) was very sexual from get go, the threesome she had with him and his then girlfriend, how her boyfriend turned her on to swinging and how they prefer to engage in lifestyle, the swinger camp they go to and what goes down there, how and why the bdsm world is not very sexual, how and why there is a lot more communication in regards to consent in the bdsm world compared to the swinger world, negations in kink community and why it’s so important, the two things she needs for bdsm to work for her, the orgy she had in college and exactly what went down, how and why she now enjoys group sex, how many boyfriends she dating now, how many other parters her anchor boyfriend has and so much more.


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