Is the emotional opacity of men a social justice issue? In episode 71, Ellie and David break down the concepts of emotional and hermeneutic labor. The notion of emotional labor was originally created to shed light on gendered workplace interactions, but it has since been applied to romantic and other kinds of relationships. Is this expanded use of the term j ... Show More
Jun 2023
Rose Hackman, "Emotional Labor: The Invisible Work Shaping Our Lives and How to Claim Our Power" (Flatiron Books, 2023)
In some ways, Hackman’s Emotional Labor: The Invisible Work Shaping Our Lives and How to Claim Our Power (Flatiron Books, 2023) serves as a natural update to Arlie Hochschild’s classic, The Managed Heart. After all, in public life it’s most often the women members of the service ... Show More
21 m
Nov 2019
Ep. 219 Invisible labor: let's talk about it
Mental load. Emotional labor. Invisible work. You’ve heard these terms and how they describe a sometimes un-awesome part of life - the work that many women do to keep everything running in homes, families, and in the workplace. This week, Meg and Kelly are talking about the bigge ... Show More
1h 2m
Jun 2020
59. Emotional labor & Self Care
<div>Hey girl!</div> <div> </div> <div>In this episode, we talk about emotional labor. What is emotional labor? What does it look like in the context codependency, race, and our everyday experiences. You are not going to want to miss the nuggets in this episode :).</div> <div> </ ... Show More
22m 2s
Feb 2024
169. The mental load in relationships
<p>Sustaining a relationship has a lot more to do with the division of domestic, emotional and physical labour. A massive component is the mental load - the additional energy that goes into organising, scheduling and managing the daily tasks, chores and things that need to be don ... Show More
39m 33s