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Jan 2023
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33. Confrontation Can Be A Good Thing - ...

Kornelija Collins
About this episode

#33 This week on the podcast, we welcome Shivani Pau, Founder and host of the podcast “A Millennial Mind” (ranked in the top 2% of podcasts globally.) Shivani Pau uses her podcast to  challenge many outdated concepts of society by interviewing guests from different backgrounds and expertise to provide listeners with guidance. This week, I have the honor of interviewing Shivani in hopes of doing the same.

We touch on many topics like careers, creating opportunities, navigating your relationships, and more. We challenge ideals such as the negative connotations of confrontation, gaslighting, growing out of friendships, and making adult friendships.

Shivani provides listeners with countless tips on how you can be successful in your career, relationships, and life in general. Tune in to this incredibly thought-provoking episode and start creating success in your life.

Episode highlights

  • The pressures of marriage
  • Balancing a full-time job and side hustle
  • Not being afraid to ask questions
  • Creating opportunities for yourself
  • Cultural differences in dating
  • Social media in relationships
  • Confrontation being a positive thing
  • How to navigate gaslighting
  • Making adult friends
  • Growing out of friendships
  • Shivani’s Performance Planner
  • Relationships and marriage
  • How you can use your strengths to be your best self

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