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Dec 2022
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E510 Ask Nick - Is Harry Styles Our Matc...

Nick Viall
About this episode

Welcome back to another juicy and exciting episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We’re here to bring on our callers and answer their questions about dating and relationships. Before the calls, we talk about Merriam-Webster's word of the year and also reflect on Nick’s answer to a question about being flaked on for dates. We bring on our first caller who needs help breaking up with her boyfriend, again. After breaking things off and maintaining a friendship, our caller wonders how to break up with her ex, once and for all. Next, our caller wonders what to do after getting mixed signals from a cute guy in her building. After going to a Harry Styles concert together, and things turning romantic, our caller wonders what to do next. Our last caller wonders what to do after her extended family has been making disturbing Facebook posts while processing a traumatic event. Now our caller wonders how to set boundaries and to control how much of a relationship you have with your family. 

“Things shifted after the Harry Styles Concert…as they do.”

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