Dating - for most of us, it's a necessary evil. We fear rejection, don’t know where to look for our people, or simply feel it's a hopeless waste of time. But as my guests on today’s show can attest, the research behind dating may tell a different story. Today, I’m joined by Anthropologist Dr. Helen Fisher and evolutionary biologist Dr. Justin Garcia of the K ... Show More
Jul 7
Why Self-Acceptance is the Key To Better Sex
In this episode, I'm covering the fifth pillar of Sexual Intelligence: self-acceptance. This is the pillar that ties everything else together, because no matter how embodied, healthy, collaborative, or self-aware you are, none of it lands if you can't accept yourself as you are r ... Show More
34m 7s
Jul 3
What I Wish I Knew About Sex in my 30s
In this episode, I'm breaking down everything I learned about sex and relationships in my 30s… because this decade taught me lessons my 20s never could. I used to think if the chemistry faded, the relationship was over, but I discovered that real intimacy is something you build, ... Show More
24m 54s
Jun 30
The Secret to Magnetic Chemistry in Long-Term Relationships
Are you and your partner really collaborating in bed, or just going through the motions? In this episode, I'm diving deep into the third pillar of Sexual Intelligence: Collaboration. I break down why two people can be having sex without truly connecting, how sexual polarity creat ... Show More
34m 35s
Oct 2019
Season 9 Episode 9: Singles in America 2019 with Helen Fisher
Listen as we talk to Helen Fisher, a world-renowned researcher, and unpack the results of her Singles in America study. We discuss this concept of fast sex; slow love, men wanting women to make the first move, and what singles are looking for in 2019.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DA ... Show More
39m 41s
Feb 2022
Dr. Helen Fisher - Your Brain on Love: How It Finds It & How to Keep It
We look into our brains to answer if True Love is real? How to find a mate? Keep one? Do opposites really attract? Our guest is Dr. Helen Fisher, anthropologist, an expert on the neuroscience of love, and the Chief Science advisor of Match.com. She’s seen it all lately- from the ... Show More
34m 42s
Jun 2025
Terms & Conditions May Apply: What We All Need to Know About Modern Dating
Dating often comes with a lot of questions. Who gets to say what they want? Who gets to be chosen? Who gets to choose? Should I stay on/off the apps? How much do I share, when, and how? This week, Esther gets set up on a blind date of sorts with three people, all deeply invested ... Show More
49m 13s
Feb 2025
Office Hours Amy Nobile Messing Takes Us Deep into Dating
<p>This week holistic dating coach, Amy Nobile Messing takes us on a guided tour of all the good and bad of dating. We get some hard truths about chemistry, second dates, and what to shut about early on in the process. Then in a moment of vulnerability I open up my phone and ha ... Show More
51m 50s
Feb 2023
393: Modern Dating And Finding Love At 40
Dating can feel challenging, tiring and even hopeless. However, it's important to know that you're not alone and that it doesn't have to be so hard. Listen to today's show to learn how to navigate dating, keep your heart open and find peace with yourself. In this episode with Chr ... Show More
44m 29s