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Oct 2019
39m 41s

Season 9 Episode 9: Singles in America 2...

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick
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Listen as we talk to Helen Fisher, a world-renowned researcher, and unpack the results of her Singles in America study. We discuss this concept of fast sex; slow love, men wanting women to make the first move, and what singles are looking for in 2019. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ ... Show More
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