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Nov 2022
42m 55s

The Truth About Emotional Unavailability

Jillian Turecki | QCODE
About this episode
Are you emotionally available? Are they? “Emotionally unavailable” gets tossed around a lot but what does it actually mean? In this episode, Jillian breaks it down and teaches what true emotional unavailability is, how to communicate with someone who isn’t opening to you, as well as how if we want to become better partners ourselves, we have to explore our p ... Show More
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