7: I've been single my entire life...

Join me for a story time and what I think is wrong with the world today... 

New Year, New Me? Lets talk about fresh starts, letting go of what doesn't serve us anymore, being comfortable with being alone and some qualities to work on for this new year :) 

some simple traits and attitudes that make someone cooler and more likable :) 

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a problem and I really need advice from the guys on the show, but Ms. Shirley, you can take a stab at it too. I’ve been single for most of my life and I finally figured out why. I’m a 28 year old man, never married, no kids and I own my home. I make ... Show More

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 63 year old black woman and I’ve never been married and I don’t have any children. I was raised to believe sex outside of marriage was wrong, so I didn’t have sex until I was 32 years old. It was never that exciting to me, so I did not put much effo ... Show More

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 28 years old and single and I’ve had the worst dating history of all of my friends. I was recently dating a guy that told me he had a stalker and we had to lay low for a while until she left him alone. I understood why he might have a stalker because h ... Show More

<p>A caller tells me he’s been spending hundreds of dollars on an online girlfriend he’s never met to make up for his lack of romantic connections in real life. We discuss how he might be able to find validation within himself as well as his frustrations with being a virgin in ad ... Show More

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am in desperate need of advice. I am a 30 year old female and I am still a virgin. I grew up in the church and I was taught to wait until marriage before sharing that part of myself. I believe that if I did the Lord would send me a husband, but now here ... Show More

i talk about rejection, childhood wounds, first relationships, and the weird shift from love to sex that happens when you grow up. about feeling undesirable, alone, and learning how to not lose myself in it. not a self-help episode. just me trying to make sense of it. 

Twenty-seven year old NYC resident, listener and friend Helena joins the Unfiltered family today to discuss the challenges of dating when you’ve never been in a relationship before. She opens up about the pressure she feels from her family, society, and herself to find love. Hele ... Show More