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Nov 2022
58m 13s

67. “We spend $3,000/month on groceries ...

RAMIT SETHI
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Jim and Kasey are 45 and 41 with 5 young kids. They’ve been married for 18 years. But they admit that they don’t even know how they’ve made it this long with the serious communication problems in their relationship—specifically as they relate to money. Kasey goes about her life avoiding money, mostly unaware that they’re dipping into their savings each month ... Show More
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