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Oct 2022
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064: Living in Your Desired Reality, Vis...

KELLEY BODE
About this episode

Elaina’s on the podcast!! I absolutely loved speaking with Elaina today about her insanely successful business, how she managed to draw in the perfect man and a whole lot about business strategy, visualizing your desires and reaching for the very top. This one is definitely for my business ladies looking for love out there!

 

Elaina Ray is a dear friend of mine, a multiple-figure strategy mentor and business coach who is absolutely killing it in the game right now. In under just 5 years, Elaina has managed to grow her business to 7 figures and is not planning on stopping any time soon. Before the major success though, Elaina opens up to me and shares her difficult situation with money growing up, which hugely impacted her relationship with money. She also tells me how she was single for 9 years before taking on a major shift in doing deeper work on her self-worth, changing her beliefs around her self-image and realizing her orgasmic potential which eventually led her to her wonderfully turned-on relationship with her partner today who, in her words, checks every single box. Our chat is filled with lessons on self-worth and believing that you can reach the very top by telling yourself the story that you can and WILL get there, whether it’s money or love.

WHAT ELSE WE’RE TALKING ABOUT:

 

  • How easy it can be to fall into the trap of otherizing when we can flip the script instead of sticking by the sidelines and saying we’ll never get there
  • How Elaina grew her business by making decisions faster and trusting her destiny quicker
  • How your core energy vibration will let others know how much they should rise to your standards
  • Telling yourself the story you want to hear that aligns with your desires instead of your fears
  • How much money is tied to our worthiness and not allowing it to rule our lives forever
  • How Elaina visualized and wrote down all aspects of the type of partner she wanted and is enjoying that very man today!
  • Trusting in your destiny and acting in spite of your circumstances
  • How powerful women’s desire is and how we can use that to inspire men to step up and lead the mission from within

Connect with Elaina:

 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heyelainaray/

Website: https://elainaray.com/

Elaina’s book ‘Becoming Self-Made’: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1989716717

 

Connect with me:

 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kelleymbode

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelley.bode.90 

Twitter: https://twitter.com/kelleybode

 

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